Okay, I am just going to say it. It is physically impossible for anyone to be able to perfectly keep up with everything all the time. In today’s Pinterest/blog filled society, we start to get the impression that in order to be a good mother and wife, that we need to have a perfectly spotlessly clean and organized home at all times. Some bloggers give the impression that every corner of their house is always immaculate and picture ready. I generally try to keep things pretty neat and clean, but sometimes that is just not always possible. Especially with a new baby around, I have quickly learned that this is definitely not always possible. Some days, other things just have to take higher priority than a spotless kitchen and all of the laundry neatly folded and put away. I realized that this is nothing to be ashamed of, and nothing to beat myself up about.
Our house was clean on Saturday. We had visitors who could attest to that. I gave myself a deadline to have all of our baby’s newborn photos that I took edited and processed. I wanted to make sure I had them all processed and blogged by the time I planned to mail out his birth announcements and baptism invitations (I included a link to our photography blog on his birth announcements). Since the deadline I set for myself was the end of the day on Monday, I treated that deadline just as I would treat any deadline that I give myself when working on photos for a client. Things that are urgent and MUST be done take top priority: feeding and taking care of the baby and the pets, and making sure we have clean diapers and towels.
I wasn’t able to quite finish everything up by Monday night, but came pretty close. On Tuesday morning, we went into the pediatrician for his two month appointment. Just like after his one month appointment, he cried pretty much nonstop the entire day after getting his vaccinations. The only thing that soothes him when he gets that upset is putting him in the Moby wrap for some skin-to-skin time all day.
Comforting our baby definitely takes priority over putting away laundry and scrubbing dishes. He is still pretty fussy today, and has a huge welt and rash all over one of his legs where the vaccine was injected. I will get to the house soon enough, but for the moment, soothing our little boy is my top priority. Once he is feeling a little better, I will tackle this to-do list:
1. Put away all the clean laundry.
2. Put away the clean dishes.
3. Clean the dirty dishes that are piling up from the past few days.
4. Sterilize all the breastmilk pumping parts and bottles.
5. Fold the sheets that were stuffed into the linen closet haphazardly.
6. Straighten up the living room and bedrooms since I have been skipping my daily pickup routine.
7. Get back on track with my weekly cleaning routine: dusting, sweeping, mopping, etc.
8. Wash a load or two of laundry.
9. Polish the copper bottoms of my pots and pans.
10. Get some kind of new organization system going for the paperwork explosion in the office.
I am very happy that I was able to get the birth announcements and baptism invitations put in the mail. 🙂 How bad do you let your house get when things get busy?